Perfectionism runs rampant in the United States, and legalism can be a kind of perfectionism that infiltrates Christian communities. However, perfectionism is neither healthy in society nor in our churches, and it’s particularly perilous for relationships. Christians...
Counseling and shepherding overlap in several ways. Shepherding requires guiding, protecting, and coming alongside sheep. Primarily, though, the overlap is in how sheep quickly become lost. They would go to green grasses or clean springs if only someone would show...
Babies usually have two modes: Screaming or happy. There’s no in-between. They haven’t developed the ability to regulate their emotions yet. Sometimes, adults haven’t adequately developed to nuance their feelings either. Think of a peaceful, mellow person who responds...
In psychology, we have a kind of diagnosis called “personality disorders.” These include Narcissism, Borderline, Avoidant, Dependent, Paranoid, etc. There are 10 of three types. You may suspect yourself or a loved one of having a personality disorder, but you’re...
We each possess a magical power to live a better life, but many don’t recognize its potential. This magic can stop a three-hour-long conflict before it begins. I bet every reader would pay a lot to learn that skill. We’re sharing it for free. Of course, that ability...
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