How to talk with your child about bullies

How to talk with your child about bullies

Help! My child is being bullied One of the most common questions we get asked by parents is about how to handle when their children are bullied. Usually the question goes something like this: “I just found out that my child is getting picked on by a bully. What...
Why do I feel jealous?

Why do I feel jealous?

Today we have taken a question from one of our Facebook followers: “Two of my friends have been hanging out with each other without me there – I don’t know why, but it is really bugging me – help?” Thanks for the question! This is a...
Keeping intimacy in your marriage

Keeping intimacy in your marriage

(This is part two of a series on having a healthy understanding on sex and intimacy. Read part one of this series here.) Intimacy – second facet of sex The other way that a person can experience sexuality is intimately. If illicit sex is about experiencing the...
How to have a healthy understanding of sex

How to have a healthy understanding of sex

Facets of a healthy sexuality: erotic In the recent Seminar for Men, I quickly referenced the different engagements with sexuality – erotic, illicit and intimate. I have gotten questions about it, so I decided it would be best to explain what a healthy understanding...
Saying “I have a peace about it”

Saying “I have a peace about it”

I have a peace about it “I feel a peace about it…”  This is a common phrase that people use in decision making… or at least that a lot of people who call themselves Christians use it…  Is a feeling of peace a scriptural way of making a decision? Some passages: 2 Thess...
What does it mean to be a counselor?

What does it mean to be a counselor?

What is counseling? Recently I had an interesting interaction with a man who happens to be a client that was a great reminder of part of why I wanted to be trained to be a counselor years ago, and why I love having the role of a shepherd in people’s lives.   I...